A close-up of two hands showing support and care, symbolizing generational connection indoors.

Whether physical, heavy responsibilities, or emotional and spiritual burdens, we are often encouraged to carry one another’s loads, reflecting the fulfillment of Christ’s law. Especially important are the burdens faced by our Christian brothers and sisters, which come in many forms. Some difficulties are more oppressive than poverty—the loneliness of those we see but cannot help in our large church gatherings, the overlooked and forgotten. There are also burdens of the heart, when we are called to remain beside someone who has fallen into sin and gently restore them with a spirit of kindness.

To be a burden carrier, compassion is essential. This vital quality is evident as we turn the pages of the Bible. We witness the friends of the paralytic and the deaf-mute offering tangible, practical help by bringing them before Jesus for healing (Mark 2; 7:32). We also see the anonymous boy who generously shared his lunch with the apostles, leading Christ to bless and multiply the food, feeding over 5,000 people (Mark 6).

We reflect on Exodus 17, where Moses carried a heavy burden in prayer as the Israelites faced attack from the fierce Amalekites. The weight on him was immense. The entire nation watched as he knelt, praying fervently for victory. Yet, without the support of Aaron and Hur, Moses’ arms grew weary, and the enemy gained ground. Similarly, Paul encourages us to pray for our churches and support one another in bearing each other’s burdens. He urges us, “Do not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up” (Galatians 6:9).

I am looking back at these examples I wrote above, and think of their harvest. What did they reap, carrying the burdens they did? The paralytic received healing because of his friends perseverance despite the long-term complications of immobility, flabby hands and feet and constant care. He was able to lift his mat and walk out in the ‘presence of many’. The deaf-mute regained his hearing, and his speech impediment vanished, restoring the ease of communication and the joy of social connection. Over 5,000 people were fed and physically strengthened to continue their journey home, all because one boy generously offered his five loaves of bread and two fish.

Aaron and Hur, a man about whom little is known except that he was a trusted leader and companion, recognized the crucial support Moses needed during the battle against the Amalekites. This was Israel’s first major military confrontation since leaving Egypt.

What did this chosen nation gain as Moses stood with his hands raised before the throne of God, flanked by others? Victory. This was one of the earliest recorded battles in the Bible, where triumph came because the community shared each other’s pain, weaknesses, and burdens. God instructed Moses to write this down “for a memorial in the book and to be recounted in the hearing of Joshua” (Exodus 17:14a). That day, they returned not only victorious in battle but also with a deeper understanding of who Yehovah Nissi truly is: The Lord – IS – My – Banner. They gained a deeper thrust into the Name of God was about to carry them for generations to come.

You see, we are the helpers—not the ones who grant blessings. We are the vessels, not the source of courage and generosity. We are the extended hands in prayer, not the givers of victory. We bring our bags and wallets, offering our ‘lunches’ and last ‘dimes’ to Him, trusting His power to multiply and provide abundantly for those in need.

We are the burden bearers. We are the sowers who venture out even in rain and harsh weather. We are the prayer warriors. No victory, no matter how small, no progress, no matter how slow, comes from apathy, laziness, indifference, or abandonment. I understand there are many needs around us, and we cannot rush to carry every burden or meet every demand.

God is not calling us to bear the heavy burden of a savior complex that weighs us down with troubles. Only He is able to carry all burdens. Over the years, I have learned that when you stay rooted in Christ and ask Him to reveal the needs of those around you, He will surely guide you to the right person and the right situation. He empowers you to be an instrument of help while He grants the ultimate victory.

Bearing each other’s burdens enables us to achieve more than just great results. In doing so, we fulfill the law of Christ. This law is reflected in Isaiah 53, which highlights the core purpose of His incarnation—becoming human to endure pain and suffering on behalf of others and ultimately offering salvation for their sins. We are called to follow in His footsteps (1 Peter 2:21).

We are called to bring the burdens of others to Him, the true path to fulfilling the law of love. What an incredible privilege we have been given!


One response to “Bringing others’ burdens to Him- a love expressed”

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    Cornel Catuna

    Thank you for sharing this Oti 🤗

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